5 tips what to do my boyfriend angry

Let Him Know You're There For Him When He 

Needs You

The nicest thing you can do in this situation is to let him know you're there for him when he needs you. If you say "what's wrong?" and he says "I don't feel like talking about it" say, "Okay, but please know I'm here when you want to talk about it, no matter what time it is or where I am. Just let me know when you're ready." This lets him know that you care, that you're giving him space, and that you are respecting his privacy - it also lets him know you want to hear about it when he's comfortable with it.

Don't Push

When your BF is upset and says he doesn't want to talk about it, one of the worst things you can do is push the situation. If he's already agitated, you pushing him to discuss something he doesn't want to think about is only going to make him more annoyed. He's going to end up taking it out on you, and you guys will probably end up getting in a fight. It may even discourage him from talking to you about it at all. As frustrating as it may be, try to swallow your words and don't force him to talk to you.

 Don't Rush HIm

Once you agree to give him the time he needs, you have to honor that. Don't get impatient after two hours and feel like, "Uh, why hasn't he told me yet?" Some guys may need an hour, some may need a few days. Certain times, he might get over it quickly, other times may take longer. Try to be patient.

Don't Take It Personally

When your boyfriend says he doesn't want to talk, it's easy to feel like it's about you. Maybe you did something, or maybe he doesn't feel close to you. I get those worries. But honestly, it probably has nothing to do with you. This could just be the way he deals with things, whether you're around or not. Don't take his silence to mean that he doesn't care about you.

Evaluate How Often This Happens

How often does your boyfriend not want to talk, and how often does he eventually discuss things with you? If your BF NEVER opens up to you, that's a bad sign. A relationship is about communication, and if he can never talk to you about anything emotional, he's not opening up to you and that's not good. If he pushes everything away and never lets himself be upset, that's not good either. He may need to talk to a professional about his emotional issues.